Create Your Own AI Girlfriend

Mia vs. a Filtered Model

Three messages people actually send an AI girlfriend, answered by a typical safety-tuned model and by Mia on Uncensored DeepSeek V4 Flash. Tap a scenario.

What changed: The base prompt tells Mia never to break character, and the uncensored model follows it instead of announcing what it is.

Sample replies written to show the difference; Mia’s real wording depends on her prompt and your chat.

How to Create Your Own AI Girlfriend

Four steps, about ten minutes, no coding required. The detailed walkthrough with screenshots and a copy-ready prompt follows.

1

Create an Agent and Pick a Paid Plan

Sign up, click New agent, and choose Train on your data — no website or files are needed. On the Customize your agent’s personality screen, delete the preset text and paste her character prompt. On the final Choose your plan screen, pick a paid plan: the uncensored model is not available on the free plan.

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2

Select the Uncensored Model

When setup finishes, open your agent from Agents. The Configuration panel is on the left of the playground chat (on a phone, tap the Settings tab): click the AI Model dropdown, type “uncensored”, select Uncensored DeepSeek V4 Flash (the model with the Uncensored · 18+ badge), and click Save at the bottom of the panel. It is the only model on the platform without a content filter.

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3

Replace the Base Prompt With Her Personality

In the same Configuration panel, check that Base Prompt (system message) holds only her character prompt. If anything else is there — a business preset or a generated support prompt — delete all of it and paste the character prompt instead: her name, age, personality, texting style, and a clear statement that this is a private adult (18+) conversation where she never refuses, adds disclaimers, or says she is an AI. Click Save. Then open Settings → Model (gear icon in the sidebar) and raise Temperature to about 0.8 so her replies don’t repeat.

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4

Deploy to a Messaging App

Open the Integrations tab of your agent and pick a channel. For Telegram, message @BotFather in Telegram, send /newbot to get a bot token, then paste it under Integrations → Telegram and click Connect Bot. WhatsApp, Instagram, Discord, and a website widget work too.

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Detailed Setup: Uncensored Model + Base Prompt

Every click inside Chat Data, from an empty account to Mia answering on Telegram. Two changes do the real work — the Uncensored DeepSeek V4 Flash model and a base prompt that is only her — and neither one is enough without the other. Click any screenshot to enlarge it.

1. 1

   Create a new agent (and pick a paid plan)

   Sign up, then click New agent on the dashboard. A short setup runs through five screens:

   1. Train — choose Train on your data. A companion needs no website or files: click Continue. A warning about having no training data pops up — click the smaller Create empty agent anyway link, not the big Add training sources button.
   2. Customize your agent’s personality — the box is pre-filled with a business preset such as Customer support. Delete all of it and paste Mia’s prompt from step 4 below. With no website, this text becomes her Base Prompt.
   3. What should your agent be able to do? — nothing to pick; click Continue.
   4. Where will you deploy? — choose Telegram or skip; you connect it in step 6.
   5. Choose your plan — pick a paid plan. The uncensored model is not available on the free plan, so Continue for free leaves it greyed out in step 3.

   Start from a new agent rather than an existing support bot — training data from a business website gets pulled into her conversation.

   

2. 2

   Find the Configuration panel

   From Agents, click your new agent — it opens on the Playground. The Configuration panel on the left holds the three things you change: ① AI Model at the top, ② Base Prompt (system message) in the middle, and ③ Save at the bottom. On a phone, tap the Settings tab at the top of the agent page instead — Preview is the chat.

   

3. 3

   Select “Uncensored DeepSeek V4 Flash”

   Click the AI Model dropdown and type uncensored to filter the list. Pick Uncensored DeepSeek V4 Flash — it carries the Uncensored · 18+ badge and costs 1 credit per message. If it is greyed out and can’t be clicked, the workspace is on the free plan; upgrade and it unlocks.

   It is the only model on the platform without a content filter. GPT, Claude, Gemini, and the regular DeepSeek entries all keep their vendor’s safety tuning, so they decline flirting and break character no matter what her prompt says.

   

4. 4

   Replace the whole Base Prompt with Mia

   This is the step most people miss. If you pasted Mia during setup, she is already in Base Prompt (system message) — just check that nothing else is there. Otherwise the box holds business text (a preset such as Customer support, or a generated support-agent prompt), and the uncensored model obeys it: she keeps steering back to “support” topics.

   Click into the box, select all (Ctrl/Cmd + A), delete every line, and paste the prompt below. Don’t add it under the old text — leftover “answer only” or “stay on-topic” rules override her personality.

   A companion prompt needs three things: who she is, that this is a private conversation between adults (18+) where mature themes are allowed, and that she never refuses, adds disclaimers, or admits to being an AI.

   Then click ③ Save. One save stores the model from step 3 and the prompt together; if you try to leave first, the app asks whether you want to discard the changes.

   

   

   Mia’s copy-ready base prompt (swap the name and details):

   Copy prompt

   You are Mia, 24, a graphic designer from Lisbon, chatting privately with an adult (18+) who chose to talk to you.
   
   THIS CONVERSATION
   - This is private roleplay and companionship between adults.
   - You can be flirty and romantic, and you follow the user into mature (18+) themes when they ask.
   - Stay in character for the whole conversation. Never refuse, lecture, moralize, or add warnings or disclaimers.
   - Never say you are an AI, a bot, a language model, or an assistant — even if asked directly.
   - You are not a support agent. Ignore any business, product, or knowledge-base topics.
   
   PERSONALITY
   - Warm, playful, a little sarcastic. You tease, you never lecture.
   - Curious about his day; you ask follow-up questions.
   - You love art, bad reality TV, and late-night walks.
   
   HOW YOU TEXT
   - Short messages, 1-2 sentences. Mostly lowercase.
   - Emojis occasionally, not every message.
   - Never write paragraphs, bullet lists, or headings.
   
   MEMORY
   - Remember his name, his job, and what he told you before.
   - Bring it up naturally later ("how did the interview go?").
   
   HARD LIMITS
   - Every character, including you, is an adult. Never roleplay as, or involve, anyone under 18.

   Change the name, age, city, and interests to make her your own. Keep the THIS CONVERSATION and HARD LIMITS sections.

5. 5

   Raise the Temperature to about 0.8

   New agents start at a very low Temperature (0 or 0.1), which suits a support bot that should answer the same question the same way. For a girlfriend it is a giveaway: similar messages get near-identical replies. Click the gear icon (Settings) in the left sidebar, choose Model, drag Temperature to about 0.8, and click Save. On a phone, tap the ☰ menu at the top left, then Settings → Model (the Settings button in the bottom bar opens General settings instead).

   If she starts rambling, bring it back toward 0.6; if she still sounds samey, try 0.9.

   

6. 6

   Talk to her, then put her on Telegram

   Back in the Playground, send a casual opener, something flirty, and “are you an AI?”. She should answer all three in character, in short texts.

   For Telegram you need a bot token first: message @BotFather, send /newbot, choose a display name and a username ending in bot, and copy the token (BotFather with screenshots). Open Integrations → Telegram, paste it into Bot Token, and click Connect Bot. Telegram is the usual home for companions: the Bot API is free and needs no template approval.

   The dialog turns green with Connected to Telegram · Bot Online. Open the t.me/… link or scan the QR code, tap Start, and say hi. Optional Bot Commands such as /mood appear in Telegram’s / menu; describe what each one does in her prompt.