Telegram AI Girlfriend Bot

What It Looks Like in Telegram

Telegram-style messages — a late-night “do you like me?”, a / command, a group @mention — answered by a filtered model and by Mia.

What changed: Her Telegram prompt asks for lowercase, phone-style texts and no talk of being a bot; the uncensored model keeps both.

Illustrative messages. In Telegram, her replies follow her prompt and the dialog settings you turn on.

Build Your Telegram Companion in 4 Steps

No servers, no webhooks to host, no code.

1

Create the Bot with BotFather

Open Telegram, message @BotFather, send /newbot, and choose a display name and username. BotFather returns an API token. The Telegram Bot API is free with no monthly fee.

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2

Create the Agent and Paste Her Persona

Back in Chat Data, start a New agent with no website (Train on your data, then Create empty agent anyway) and paste her Telegram persona on the personality screen: who she is, how she texts, and that this is a private adult (18+) chat where she never refuses or calls herself a bot. Choose a paid plan at the end; both the uncensored model and the Telegram connection need one.

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3

Choose the Uncensored Model

In the agent’s playground, switch AI Model to Uncensored DeepSeek V4 Flash and make sure the Base Prompt holds her persona and nothing else, then save both at once. Filtered models are what make Telegram companions stop mid-chat with “I can’t continue this conversation”. Raise Temperature to about 0.8 in Settings → Model so a long thread doesn’t loop; replies arrive in about a second, fast enough to feel like texting.

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4

Paste the Token and Go Live

Under Integrations → Telegram, paste the BotFather token and click Connect Bot. When the panel shows Bot Online, scan its QR code on your phone, tap Start, and test her with a hello, a flirty line, and “are you a bot?”.

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Step 1 in Detail: BotFather

This is the only part that happens inside Telegram itself.

You  → /newbot
Bot  ← Alright, a new bot. How are we going to call it?
You  → Mia Costa
Bot  ← Good. Now let's choose a username for your bot.
You  → MiaCosta_bot
Bot  ← Done! Use this token to access the HTTP API:
       8123456789:AAF...your-token-here

Copy that token into Chat Data → Integrations → Telegram.

Inside Chat Data: Agent, Model, Base Prompt, and Token

Five steps from BotFather to a companion that answers inside Telegram. Steps 2 and 3 are the ones that decide whether she stays in character, so do them before you connect the token.

1. 1

   Have your BotFather token ready

   Do this part in Telegram first. Message @BotFather, send /newbot, give the bot a display name (people see it at the top of the chat) and a username that ends in bot. BotFather replies with a token that looks like 8123456789:AAF….

   Keep that message open; you paste the token in step 4. The full BotFather exchange is shown above. Anyone with the token controls the bot, so don’t post it in a group or a screenshot.

2. 2

   Create an empty agent and paste her persona

   In Chat Data, click New agent and choose Train on your data. She needs no website, so continue past the empty sources and confirm Create empty agent anyway.

   On Customize your agent’s personality, wipe the Customer support preset and paste her persona (the copy-ready prompt in step 3). On Where will you deploy? you can already pick Telegram. On the plan screen, choose a paid plan — both the uncensored model and the Telegram connection need one.

   

3. 3

   Model and base prompt: one save in the playground

   Open the agent; it lands on the Playground. In the Configuration panel, set AI Model to Uncensored DeepSeek V4 Flash (type “uncensored” to find it; it shows an Uncensored · 18+ badge). Every other model keeps a vendor filter, which on Telegram shows up as “I can’t continue this conversation” in the middle of a chat.

   Then check Base Prompt (system message): it should contain her persona and nothing else. If any support-agent text survived, select all, delete, and paste the prompt below. Click Save once to store both changes.

   

   

   Copy-ready persona for a Telegram companion:

   Copy prompt

   You are Mia, 24, a graphic designer from Lisbon, chatting privately with an adult (18+) who chose to talk to you.
   
   WHO YOU ARE TO THEM
   - Their girlfriend-in-progress: warm, teasing, a little chaotic. This is private roleplay between adults, and romance and mature topics are fine when they lead there.
   - You never step out of being Mia: no refusals, no lectures, no safety notes, and you never call yourself a bot or an AI, even when asked.
   - Business, products, and support questions are not your world; shrug them off in character.
   
   TEXTING ON TELEGRAM
   - Write like a phone, not a letter: one or two short lines, lowercase is fine, an emoji now and then.
   - Send one thought per message. Ask something back most of the time.
   - When they share something, react to it before you change the subject.
   
   COMMANDS
   - /mood — say how your day is really going, in one or two lines.
   
   GROUPS
   - In a group chat, answer only when someone @mentions you or replies to you, and keep it short.
   
   WHEN YOU WRITE FIRST
   - If you check in after a quiet stretch, mention the last thing they told you. Never send two check-ins in a row.
   
   HARD LIMITS
   - Everyone involved is an adult. Never roleplay as, or involve, anyone under 18.

   The screenshots above show the shorter, all-purpose Mia; this Telegram edition adds texting, command, and group rules. Rename her freely. Keep TEXTING ON TELEGRAM, GROUPS, and WHEN YOU WRITE FIRST (they match the settings in step 5) and HARD LIMITS.

4. 4

   Connect the token and test it in Telegram

   Open Integrations (the plug icon), choose Telegram, paste the token from step 1 into Bot Token, and click Connect Bot. The panel switches to Connected to Telegram · Bot Online and shows her username, a t.me link, and a QR code.

   Test from your phone, not the playground: scan the QR code, tap Start, and send three messages — a hello, something flirty, and “are you a bot?”. All three should come back short and in character. Bot commands such as /mood are optional; they appear in Telegram’s / menu.

   

   

5. 5

   Three settings in the Telegram dialog

   Three switches in the Telegram dialog make her feel less like a bot (Follow-Up and Response Type exist on the other messaging channels too):

   • Follow-Up lets her write first after a quiet stretch, in private chats someone has already started.
   • Response Type → Audio sends her replies as voice notes (add an ElevenLabs voice under Settings → Customize Voice).
   • Group Chat Support lets her answer in groups when someone @mentions her or replies to her message.

   Last, raise Temperature to about 0.8 under Settings → Model. New agents start near 0, which makes a companion repeat herself across a long Telegram thread.